Ahhh... The house is completely quiet, with my husband at work, and my son and cat snoozing away. I might not be a morning person but I do love this time of day, when everything is still and I'm awake to enjoy it...alone. After dropping my husband off at work, I made the usual stop at Caribou Coffee and grabbed a small, nonfat vanilla latte, the breakfast drink of champions. I can't indulge in my ultimate favorite of drinks, the Mint Condition (oh, the chocolately goodness) or the sweet and creamy Caramel Highrise. So, I opt for the smallest, non-fat drink I can find that still has a little sweetness built in. Some days it's vanilla, others caramel, and when I'm really daring....hazelnut! Right. It does get boring ordering the same drink day in and day out but what's a burgeoning health conscious girl to do? I can't drink the smoothies because they're actually made with real, non-heated (allergies) fruit. Can you believe it? I've already drank enough tea to flood the oceans and my mind has decided it really needs that caffeine fix. Maybe someone will come up with a new flavor, like, like... oh, how would I know? It hasn't been discovered yet! Please do hurry though, because this vanilla charm is starting to wear off.
Ahhh... The house is completely quiet, with my husband at work, and my son and cat snoozing away. I might not be a morning person but I do love this time of day, when everything is still and I'm awake to enjoy it...alone. After dropping my husband off at work, I made the usual stop at Caribou Coffee and grabbed a small, nonfat vanilla latte, the breakfast drink of champions. I can't indulge in my ultimate favorite of drinks, the Mint Condition (oh, the chocolately goodness) or the sweet and creamy Caramel Highrise. So, I opt for the smallest, non-fat drink I can find that still has a little sweetness built in. Some days it's vanilla, others caramel, and when I'm really daring....hazelnut! Right. It does get boring ordering the same drink day in and day out but what's a burgeoning health conscious girl to do? I can't drink the smoothies because they're actually made with real, non-heated (allergies) fruit. Can you believe it? I've already drank enough tea to flood the oceans and my mind has decided it really needs that caffeine fix. Maybe someone will come up with a new flavor, like, like... oh, how would I know? It hasn't been discovered yet! Please do hurry though, because this vanilla charm is starting to wear off.
Whole grain spaghetti pomodoro with chicken. Yum! That's what I had for dinner tonight at a great family restaurant that serves up a heapin' helping of tacky decor with some out of this world food. My meal was quite simple but oh so tasty: thin whole grain spaghetti noodles loaded with diced tomatoes, a few tiny mushrooms and an abundance of chicken, all resting in perhaps too much olive oil. As long as I didn't dig too deep, the oil was just right. A buttery slice of toasted garlic bread completed the meal. Mmmmm....light yet filling and oh...so...good! I think I'll try to recreate that at home. :)
I don't know about you, but I received my love for desserts from my parents. My mother could put out the toughest slab of meat you can imagine, but give her some butter and sugar and she'd whip up the most delectable desserts ever! We weren't allowed to grab cookies or candy whenever we felt like it but my parents did enjoy having dessert after dinner and my siblings and I had no complaints. We'd wash that hard hunk of beef down with as much milk as it took so we could sink our teeth into a gooey chocolate brownie or the most peanutty peanut butter cookies on the planet. Her lemmon meringue pie was the best I've ever tasted. Mmmm, that flaky crust and sweet/sour lemon meringue was absolute perfecton...

Enter portion control and the ability to eat whatever I want as long as I make smart, healthy choices...most of the time. I'm a bit of a rebel and resist anyone telling me I have to do something a certain way, but WW has definitely given me the tools to loose weight, get healthier and still make my own decisions about it. I have to own it because no one else is responsible for what I do. It's okay to eat dessert once in awhile as long as I'm smart about it.
Diet, lo-cal, reduced fat, and sugar-free food has come a long way. Some of it still tastes yucky but there are plenty of healthier options out there that actually taste good. WW Chocolate Cookies & Cream Ice Cream Bars taste good. I save at least two points each day so I can eat one of these, or another smart sweet choice, after dinner. Maybe I shouldn't be eating dessert EVERY day but I know myself and my dessert addiction, and for now, those daily two dessert points are necessary. WW is all about retraining yourself on how to eat and the leader would probably suggest trying to break the daily sweet habit but I've done pretty well so far. WW also has several healthier alternative recipes for their high calorie, high fat cousins.
I'm not pushing Weight Watchers on anyone here. I've found that it's working for me but we all need different things. This post is really about the fact that I love desserts and found a way to still enjoy them but on a much saner level.
One thing I've learned through WW is that I need to be mindful about what and how much I'm eating. Planning ahead has also been helpful. I do have one issue with food that I'll probably always have to deal with and maybe someone else is dealing with the same thing. If so, let's commiserate! My issue is that I am allergic to the following foods, and then some...
1. All fruits and vegetables unless cooked, with the exception of pineapples (yes, it's true)
2. All nuts except cashews and some types of peanuts
3. Most grains unless cooked, and sometimes even then
4. Food coloring dyes, especially certain reds
5. Some sugar substitutes, like Splenda
6. Various spices and herbs
I also have several other allergies, like mold, dust mites, trees, grasses, pollen, some soaps and perfumes, latex, um...let's see, I'm sure there's more... oh yes, possibly even paper!
Anyway, this food allergy thing has made it difficult to eat right while trying to lose weight. I found out I'm allergic to a protein in the fruits and vegetables and when they're heated, that protein disappears. That's a plus, but the minus is that I prefer the taste and texture of those foods when they're raw. Oh, well. Ya live with what ya got, right?
If anyone else has this same food issue, please comment and let me know how you handle it. Also, good recipes are always welcome! I plan to post a few here and there but not every day. Good luck to all the NaBloPoMoers out there! :)
A quick update on Texty Ladies: The picture for today's writing contest has been posted. Entries are accepted until midnight Tuesday, July 1st. The winner will be announced on Wednesday. I hope you'll go take look at the picture; you just might be inspired!! ;) Jane has an interview lined up for Tuesday, July 1st and I'll be posting my interview with Nati Pierandrei this Thursday.
That's it for now. It's late and I'd better get some sleep. Good night!
My Texty Ladies blog is now holding a weekly contest in the Monday Mix. We post a picture and ask that people write about it using 200 words or less. It can be in the form of a song, poem, short story or whatever you like. On Wednesday, we’ll post the selected winner on our Home Page and also on our Monday Mix Winners Hall of Fame page. The winners will receive a little something from the Texty Ladies as well. Said “little something” will be mentioned at a later date as it is not yet ready.
I hope you’ll go to Texty Ladies to get more details and submit an entry. I can’t wait to read it! (You might enjoy reading the other entries as well!)
Which would you choose?
I just finished watching House of Flying Daggers for the second time. The first was just after it had come out on DVD. I love this movie. As the title of my post indicates, the movie is all about duty and love. If you had to make the choice between true duty to your country, friend, or cause, and your own life or the life of your true love, which would you choose?
I'll be back in the next day or so to post a little something about home. Good night!
I'll be posting some of my poetry and art on that site in the near future. A new feature right now will be a Poem Of The Day. There will be no rhyme or reason as to the choice of poems other than that I like them and hope you will too. There might be a vague theme at times, like seasonal or holiday poetry. We'll see. Once I have enough of them posted, they'll be sorted and presented by theme when you click on the category or tab link.
When it comes to writing poetry, I like paring down words as much as possible, which is why I'm trying my hand at haiku, haibun, bio, cinquain, couplets, diamante, and the like. If you're experimenting with these forms, I'd love to hear from you and read what you've written! :)
Here's a little something for you to try. This form of bio should be fairly easy for you and fun to post on your blog. I've copied it from a post on Poetry Soup.
At Texty Ladies and I believe here, I posted about my blog "A Curious Brew" being at WordPress. I recently started a trial version of a blog at TypePad and planned to call it "Sweet Endeavors." Well, I discovered a theme at WordPress that worked better for what I have in mind for Sweet Endeavors so I'm changing the WordPress blog to reflect that. My trial version at TypePad had to be cancelled but I will start a new one and name that "A Curious Brew." I know it sounds confusing. Somehow, it's all making sense for me.
Why do I even need to blog elsewhere? Isn't LiveJournal enough? Well, I've talked about my blog addiction before and I also find that WordPress and some other blog software have more options and allow for more creativity than LiveJournal. I do love LiveJournal, however, so my main blog will be here.
Here's a link for my new "Sweet Endeavors" blog which is still under construction.
Hey, here's a link to
a friend of mine. Please bombard her with comments so she'll start posting again! Thanks!
We'll be busy over at Texty Ladies next week. Here's the tentative schedule:
Monday Mix - The post will be music related.
Talkative Tuesday - Jane is interviewing the very talented author Diane Castilleja.
Wild Wednesday - I'm not sure what Jane is preparing for this day.
Thoughtful Thursday - I've been working on a post about art therapy for kids with disabilities. This may have to be postponed until the following week. I'm waiting to find out whether or not I can include names in the post. I have to submit it to the principal of the school where I interviewed the art teacher, then see what she has to say about it.
Fiction Friday (only the fact that we're doing a continuing story has turned out to be fictional so far!) - Bettie Sharpe will either be guest blogging on this date or the following Friday.
With regard to the continuing story, we still plan on posting it eventually. There's just a lot to be worked out yet.
For NaBloPoMo, I should be posting about "home" this month. There have been days this month when I'll be at work and just want to be home, and then when I'm home, I, at times, just want to be anywhere else. I feel very conflicted lately and not very together. Hopefully, I can use some of the time managment skills I posted about today at TL to get myself a little more together. :)
Okay, I'm off. Have a good night!
P.S. It's very weird how what I typed in "Location" automatically takes you to a Google map. Curious.
And blissful it was. I don't remember having any dreams or even waking while switching positions. It was heavenly. My only wish is that I would have squeezed in a post here at LJ. I'll hopefully be back here tonight.
NOTE: We have had a few writers commit to guest blogging at Texty Ladies: Bettie Smart in June and Dianna Love AND Mary Buckham in July. Stay tuned for actual dates to be posted! I look forward to their visit!
This is one of those nights when I feel as if the day went by and I got nothing accomplished. I can barely think straight and it's almost midnight. I'll post a little something about home tomorrow. Sweet dreams to all of you!
- noun
1. Any place of residence or refuge: a heavenly home.
I'd like to talk about one of the definitions of "home"; more specifically, the idea of home as a refuge. According to this definition, "home" can be not only the physical place you hang your hat every evening, but also a place where you find shelter, protection, safety and relief. This could be that special place in your house where you feel most comfortable, like a comfy chair where you can kick your feet up and let all your cares slip away. It could also be a person who comforts and supports you. That person, for me, is my husband, Ryan.
With Ryan, I can be completely me. I can be a word nerd and he totally gets it. When I wake up in the morning after going to bed with wet hair, he thinks it's cute that I look like a raving Medusa. :) I can sing in a silly voice and dance like an idiot and he just might join me. If I say something completely stupid, he might laugh, but it is never with malice. He knows when I'm PMSing before I do and he pretends not to notice (points for him!). He understands that I struggle with the dark and light inside me and he never passes judgment when the dark occasionally wins the battle. He is my safe place. A place where I can go for complete and utter acceptance. At the end of the day, I can rest my head against his chest and feel completely at peace. He is my refuge, my home.
Thank you, honey, for being home to me.
I got tagged by Amber at Rational Irrationalities today! Thanks, Amber! J
Here are the rules: The rules of the game get posted at the beginning. Each player answers the questions about themselves. At the end of the post, the player then tags 5-6 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves them a comment, letting them know they have been tagged and asking them to read your blog.
1. What was I doing 10 years ago?
Ten years ago, I was a single mother with a seven year-old son. I worked full time as a closer at a title insurance company. My job was to make sure all of the documents were ready to be signed by home purchasers and sellers. I'd make sure all figures were accurate and the real state title was clear. It was also my job to explain all the documents to the buyers and sellers, cut the checks and make sure that everything was handled appropriately. I handled some commercial, relocation and new construction closings as well. I hated it. Well, most of the time I hated it. There was always pressure to squeeze as many closings as you could in a day and quite often, I'd have to deal with some less than pleasant people.
This was also about the time that school started to go sour for my son. Regular public schools didn't have a lot going in those days for kids with AS. We lived just outside the school district my son was going to and there was an issue of funding so the following year, he ended up switching to a different school. My son and I did our best in those years and we had each other.
2. Five things on my to do list for today.
A. Go out for lunch with my husband (had a great margerita pizza);
B. See what treasures we can find at Half Price Books (left with 8 books between us);
C. Purchase some flowers to go in two really cool green glazed pots and plant them (way too hot and sticky right now);
D. Start working on my article about art therapy for kids with disabilities (I've gathered so much information, I don't know where to start!);
E. Get caught up on same episodes of Angel (I am SO far behind the TV scene).
3. Snacks I enjoy.
I'm eating caramel corn right now. YUM! I also enjoy WW Chocolate Oreo Ice Cream Bars (trying to be good). Fritos with M&Ms for when I want to be bad. Anything chocolate. Crackers and cheese with a glass of wine.
4. Things I would do if I was a billionaire.
I'd secure my son's financial future. I would also build our dream home. I'd hopefully have the ability to stop working for others and spend more time writing. It would be great to travel more, which in turn would give me more to write about! I would also give money to Autism and Alzheimer's organizations.
5. Places I have lived.
I have only lived in Minnesota. While I've moved 11 times in the last 23 years, I've only lived in 4 cities and they're all adjacent!
The people I tagged: Jane, MojoRising40, Jacquie, Dragonflower, Julsmh
It's Thursday night and I have tomorrow off of work. Today was my son's last day of school for this school year and I decided to spend tomorrow doing something fun with him.
It's so nice knowing I don't have to get up at 5:00 a.m. I have an 8:00 a.m. meeting with some art teachers who agreed to be interviewed for Texty Ladies. I'll be writing about art therapy for those with disabilities. After that, I'll come home, grab my son and bring my husband to work, then we'll have lunch and do something fun.
My son will be with his dad for a good portion of the weekend and I'm looking forward to just puttering around at home. If the skies clear up, I'll be weeding and planting a few poor flowers that have been sitting in their pots for too long. I hope to also catch up on some much desired reading, prepare some posts for next week and have some quality time with my husband. As much as I love to go out and get a little crazy, I also enjoy staying home to de-stress. We probably won't travel any further than the liquor store to pick up some Baileys and a six-pak.
Ahh, home... How I long to wrap myself in your comfort.
It’s been about two years now since we purchased our current home. I swore I would never live in another rambler. I grew up living in a rambler but always dreamed of living in a house with a second floor. All the stories I’d read talked of children running down the stairs from their upstairs bedrooms. It seemed so mysterious, like something magical happened on the second floor. I know that sounds silly but I think it held the same fascination for me that some people have for attics.
Well, I may be missing out on all the fun stuff that supposedly exists in the upstairs rooms, but I discovered there were a lot of neat things in our walk-out basement. We bought the home from an elderly man who could no longer care for it. His wife passed away five years ago and now he was ready to move in to a town home where he would have less to care for. I knew this man was a bit of a character because he showed up the day we came back to look at the house one last time, and proceeded to give us the grand tour. It was easy to see that he loved the house and was very proud of it. He and his wife had built it in 1955 and had shared many memories there. But back to the tour…
The owner had apparently fancied himself a DIY kinda guy and had salvaged various home goods from the local area. He put in birds-eye maple floor tiles rescued from the demolition of a post office. Its warm golden glow is beautiful. He also showed us a fountain he added to the bathroom sink, taken from another public building. The walls are paneled with real wood, and while the look is slightly dated, it’s not too and gives it a nice hunting lodge kind of feel. Mr. Owner also crafted two light panels framed in wood for holding pictures or artwork. He’s got the deer and geese displayed right now but my husband plans to take those pictures out, put in some of his own artwork and paint the frames black. It will add the modern flavor we enjoy. All of those additions to the home are nice, but my absolute favorite is the built-in wall safe. It’s okay for me to mention it because we don’t plan to use it to hold money or important documents. Maybe I’ll put something fun for my son to discover there some time in the future. J
The home has some other great features, like real wood floors, the high ceilings, plaster walls, and a Romeo and Juliet style half-moon shaped balcony off the dining room. There’s also a long built-in white brick flower box under the front picture window. In the backyard, there’s a brick patio with a built-in brick fireplace. None of these features are what you’d buy now, but they have a charm about them that makes our little home unique.
This isn’t my dream home but we‘re enjoying it for now. I’d love bigger rooms, an office and a studio, and a fully landscaped yard instead of one that needs a lot of work. For right now, though, I’m happy with our cute little uniquely appointed home. J
