Congratulations!  Wow, what exciting news!  How fitting that you confirmed on Mother’s Day morning that you’re going to be a mother.  How are you feeling about this?  Yes, you’re single but you know it can be done.  It’s not the situation you were hoping for but you’re strong and I know you don’t want to make the same decision you did at 20.  That was too painful and you’re in a much better financial situation now, you’ve grown and you know that you can do this.  Your parents have offered their support.  It might not have been the ideal situation they’d have you in but they know you can do this, too. 

So much has happened in the last few years.  You’ve had your time with models and rockstars.  Now, you’re weary of that whole scene.  Having a child doesn’t mean the fun is over; it’s just a different kind of fun, right? 

Honey, I know you’ve been searching.  You’ve even turned your prayer around from, “God, please send someone to love me,” to “God, please send me someone to love.”  I believe He heard your prayer.  J 

It is a wise decision to examine the pattern you repeat in choosing the wrong men.  You need to find out why you choose men who are incapable of loving you.  You deserve someone who will nourish and support you; someone who will love you for who you are so you won’t keep trying to be someone else. 

I know you have mixed feelings about the baby’s father.  It might have hurt a little that he didn’t want to stand by you, but he didn’t say he wouldn’t stand by his child.  Have hope.  You can now feel the relief from constantly worrying about who he’s with.  It’s not right to stereotype all musicians, but let’s face it; the opportunity and temptation are always there for them.  Ease your mind, forget all that, and focus on being whole again and bringing new life into this world! 

I’m sorry.  I didn’t mean to go on and on or sound like I’m preaching but a good heart-to-heart with yourself is sometimes needed!  J  I’ll get back in touch with you in the coming months.  Be strong!!

Love,

Me